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For many singles, Valentine’s Day is a source of anxiety. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Read below to find out how to use this day as an opportunity for personal transformation, healing, & growth!


Reframe Those Thoughts!


At the end of the day, it’ becomes what you make of it. Scientific research has proven that “energy flows where your attention goes.”

So, if you are feeling bad for yourself, you are energizing your single-hood.

And there’s no need for that.

What if Valentine’s Day was a sacred opportunity to water your OWN garden with all sorts of self-love?!

And don’t think for a minute that these activities are “reserved” for singles! If you are in a committed relationship, these are still excellent ways to love & nurture yourself!

Read below to see 30 activities you can do this V-Day to put the LOVE and ENERGY on YOU!


Self-Love Activities For Valentine’s Day


  1. Watch a movie with yourself
  2. Take a relaxing bath
  3. Give yourself a romantic meal.
  4. Create something. Paint. Knit. Write. Dance. Sing.
  5. Heal yourself (do a healing session)
  6. Meditate
  7. Write yourself a love letter
  8. Do something that makes you smile
  9. Buy yourself a valentine’s day gift
  10. Get a relaxing massage, manicure, &/or pedicure (or give it to yourself)!
  11. Feung Shui your home for the flow of energy
  12. Write down things about yourself that you love
  13. Write down your biggest accomplishments
  14. Practice deep gratitude for what you already have
  15. Work out & produce some feel-good endorphins!
  16. Give yourself a media cleanse
  17. Buy yourself flowers
  18. Bake something fun! Or eat something savory
  19. Hang out with your pet
  20. Cleanse your social media account of people who only make you feel bad
  21. Clean out your closets & Marie Kondo (clean TF out of) your home
  22. Fill your own cup (literally) and enjoy a cup of hot tea
  23. Biinge-watch a favorite TV show
  24. Give yourself a tarot card reading
  25. Write an angry letter to someone & burn it
  26. Write a fiction story about you. Make yourself the protagonist. Give yourself a happy love life.
  27. Learn something new: take an online course, read a book, and dedicate yourself to a new passion!
  28. Send someone you love a secret gift
  29. Hang out with your girlfriends
  30. Journal

The point: feel good about yourself & give yourself love!

I also offer an incredible (& really cute) Self-Love Healing Workbook here. It’s filled with fun healing activities, self-love affirmations, and 25 highly transformative journal prompts. ON SALE for the entire month of February!

Wishing you the best on your journey!


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Natalie is certified in the Emotion Code, the Body Code, Usui & Tibetan Reiki (second degree), and The Regenetics Method. She inspires and supports those on the spiritual awakening and ascension journey. Please visit the shop for powerful energy healing sessions and other tools to help you on your journey. Thank you for visiting Lionheart Alchemy! We are so happy to serve you. Namasté.